Sunday, May 16, 2010

A PLACE WITHIN HER WALLS

Rejoice on Jerusalem Day



It should be a day in which we pledge that the city must never be divided.

Jerusalem, referred to over 600 times in the Bible, has represented the cornerstone of our Jewish identity for more than three millennia since it became the capital of King David’s Israelite monarchy. It remained at the core of our spiritual longings following the second dispersion when for 2,000 years our forefathers faced Jerusalem in their daily prayers, yearning for a return to their ancestral homeland. Moreover, even throughout their exile, Jews retained a significant presence in their Holy City and since the 1840s have constituted the largest group inhabiting the city.



































This article made me start to think about the place called Jerusalem. Why is everyone fighting over this little SPACE of REAL ESTATE? How does this PLACE I love apply to me?
The place designated for the resting spot of G-d should be reviewed. The writer of the article went into great depth to describe the city and its emerging history. Jerusalem has long been the place designated to be the CITY of our G-d. What is this city really like? Let's take an INTERIOR VIEW. Pretend it is not so much a location but an interior state or SPACE.
The war in all of us is how to find the RESTING PLACE, A PLACE WHERE HIS PRESENCE DWELLS. To me, having done a study on the names of G-d in the Hebrew, Jehovah Shammah resonated. This name implies " JEHOVAH is there." Listen to what the BIBLE has to say about such a city: "...and the name of the city from that day shall be, the LORD is there" (Ezekiel 48:35)
It is understood that the LORD will be with His people in this PLACE. The prophet Ezekiel went on to say that "the presence of the LORD will be there." He spoke while the people were in captivity in Babylon because the people were in gross sin. The situation was rather grim. They wanted out of the PHYSICAL PLACE they were residing. Sound familiar?
He went on to describe a new place, and temple.
As a designer I understand room frustrations. New places and plans are put on the paper of our minds. We all dislike where we are at times and wonder how can we escape. Imagination and strength are drained. How do I feel settled when everything around me is shaken? I am in a strange new place. I must find HIM in this place. He is my RESTING PLACE. HE IS THERE.
Just like the Israelites of old that were shaken in the strange land, they threw in the towel so to speak. They laid down their HARPS. This was their VOICE of TRIUMPH.
This was said so well in Psalm 137:5,6. A true love for beloved JERUSALEM was heard. They were voicing where they wanted to BE. Joy was drained.
"If I forget thee, O Jerusalem,let my right hand forget her cunning. If I do not remember thee, let my tongue cleave to the roof of my mouth; if I prefer not Jerusalem above my chief JOY."
I believe Jerusalem's voice today is being heard. I also know JEHOVAH'S pledge of HIS PRESENCE. He will remain. He is not going to leave HIS PEOPLE. They have in 62 year's truly risen like the Phoenix out of the ashes. This city is important to the Jewish people. My hope is that they will discover the PLACE WITHIN HER WALLS WHERE HE IS. FRIEND SHIP and INTIMACY.
We must remind ourselves to not throw down "our harps." May we echo a voice of triumph and refrain not our prayers in rejoicing for the CITY OF OUR GREAT KING!
As we enter into a new season after the COUNTING OF THE OMER let us reflect on what has been given to us. May this Shavuot be a time of EXPECTANCY. May we believe change is on the way.
Just like in a room renovation let's put the whole process in perspective. Take time.
We are all so obsessed with having the perfect house and dwelling. The PLACE is not as essential as who occupies the SPACE. Will my family and guests feel welcome.
I am in the midst of repainting my family room now. A brighter hue on the walls will lift the drab dated tone. I am looking for that perfect solution to make my room brighter. Paint alone cannot make my space come alive.
When I hear His gentle whisper I light up. He talked to Adam in the cool of the night, just walking in the garden. They were hanging out! Be expectant that He wants to just "hang out" with you. I have to make my room HIS space.
He always feels welcome to come into my family room when I move over on the sofa. Lot's of time I have to stop what I am doing . Move the junk on the floor so He can sit awhile . The closer He is to me the easier to hear HIS VOICE. I love it when HE IS THERE next to me.
I anticipate that this has helped you find your place within her walls. This is my view on JEHOVAH SHAMMAH and the parallel to Jerusalem. A cozy spot in my family room where HE IS. HE BECOMES like FRESH PAINT IN MY ROOM. He walls me in with HIS BRIGHTNESS.

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Israel you are not Alone

Having just returned from a month in Israel and seeing the "circus" our State Department wants Israel to jump thru, it is refreshing to hear a LEADER THAT LEADS! Please read the entire speech that follows. My eyes have been opened to the facts. I am going to work in every effort to help build Zion.
You will be hearing how you can get involved and support Israel. There are so many opportunities to invest in this country, both spiritually and financially. With every visit new wonder is displayed about the TIMES. It is the TIME to jump in and be hands and hearts extended to a country that Biblically is the clock for all TIME!
Part of this trip was to attend a CUFI Jerusalem Summit, ironically Bidden was in town. We made a statement. We as Christian Zionists, are a lobbying group much like AIPAC. Our support was so warmly received from shop owners who ran out of their stores to THANK US FOR STANDING! We all knew we were sent FOR SUCH A TIME AS THIS! The feast of Purim had just ended, we were marching in one accord chanting, "Israel you are NOT ALONE"...
The Prime Minister addressed our group with a shorter version of this excellent address below. Please enjoy reading, praying and getting involved!



Netanyahu's AIPAC Speech in Washington Receives Standing Ovation
Teresa Neumann (Mar 24, 2010)

"The connection between the Jewish people and the Land of Israel cannot be denied. The connection between the Jewish people and Jerusalem cannot be denied. The Jewish people were building Jerusalem 3,000 years ago and the Jewish people are building Jerusalem today. Jerusalem is not a settlement. It's our capital."

(Washington, D.C.)—A March 23 report in Haaretz describes the highly charged difference of opinions addressed in Washington when Israel's Prime Minister Binyamin Netanyahu met with Secretary of Defense Hillary Rodham Clinton. In contrast, however, at the same time, the Prime Minister received an overwhelming voice of support and a standing ovation from nearly 8,000 attendants after delivering a powerful speech at the American Israel Public Affairs Committee (AIPAC).

The Prime Minister reportedly spoke several hours after Secretary Clinton charged that Israel's building in parts of Jerusalem that the United States does not recognize as being under Israeli sovereignty "undermines" U.S. policy.

Noted the report in Haaretz, when Netanyahu spoke, he "pointed out that Israel has made constant to the concessions to the United States and Palestinian Authority but drew the red line at Jerusalem, reasoning that building houses for Jews in all of united Jerusalem in no way precludes the possibility of a two-state solution. More than half of the American Congressmen were among the more than 7,000 people listening to the speech at the annual conference of the pro-Israel lobby group in Washington. The speech was delayed in order to allow people to enter the packed convention hall." (Photo: Haaretz)

The following are excerpts from Prime Minister Netanyahu's speech:

"As the world faces monumental challenges, I know that America and Israel will face them together. We stand together because we are fired by the same ideals and inspired by the same dreams—the dreams of achieving prosperity, security and peace for all. Now, this dream seemed an impossibility to most Jews a century ago.

"This month, my father celebrated his one-hundredth birthday. That's not his only achievement, but when he was born, the Czars ruled Russia, the British Empire spanned the globe and the Ottoman Empire ruled the Middle East. During his lifetime, all three of these empires fell. Others rose and fell, and the Jewish destiny, the pendulum of Jewish faith, swung from despair to a new hope and a new beginning—the rebirth of the Jewish state.

"See, for the first time in two thousand years, a sovereign Jewish people could defend itself against attack. And before that—understand what transformation this was—before that, in our dispersion, we were powerless, absolutely powerless to defend ourselves against an unremitting barrage of savagery from the bloodletting in the Middle Ages, to the expulsion of the Jews from England, and then from Spain and then from Portugal, to the wholesale slaughter of Jews in the Ukraine, to the pogroms in Russia, culminating in the greatest horror of all—the Holocaust.

"The founding of Israel didn't stop the attack on the Jews. But it merely—well it's more than merely—it gave the Jews the power to defend themselves against those attacks.

"I want to tell you about the day when I realized what this transformation was. It was the day I met Shlomit Vilmosh over forty years ago. I was nineteen years old. I served with her son, with Shlomit's son, Haim, in the same elite military unit. And one dark night during a battle in 1969, Haim was killed in a burst of gunfire. At his funeral, in a kibbutz in the Galilee, I learned something. I discovered that Haim had been born shortly after his mother and father had been freed from the death camps of Europe. If Haim had been born two years earlier, this daring young Israeli officer would have been tossed into the ovens like a million and a half other Jewish children. Haim's mother Shlomit told me that though she was in great anguish, she was proud. At least, she told me—and this is something I'll never forget as long as I live—at least she said, my son fell wearing the uniform of a Jewish soldier defending the Jewish state.

"And time and again Israel's soldiers were forced to repel the attacks of much larger enemies committed to our destruction. Yet when Egypt and Jordan realized that we could not be defeated in battle, they embraced the path of peace and we value the peace treaties we've achieved with both countries. Yet there are those who continue the assault against the Jewish state; there are those who openly call for our destruction. They seek to achieve this goal through terrorism, missile attacks and most recently by developing atomic weapons.

"It's instructive that the ingathering of the Jews to Israel doesn't deter them. In fact, it whets their appetite. Iran's rulers say "Israel is a one bomb country." The head of Hezbollah says: "If all the Jews gather in Israel, it will save us the trouble of going after them worldwide."

"My friends, these are unpleasant facts, but they are the facts. The greatest threat to any living organism, to any nation, is not to recognize danger in time—not to recognize the facts.

"Seventy-five years ago, many leaders around the world put their heads in the sand. Untold millions died in the war that followed. Ultimately, two of history's greatest leaders helped turn the tide. Franklin Delano Roosevelt and Winston Churchill helped save the world. Indeed they deserve every applause. They helped save the world, but they were too late to save six million of my own people, the Jewish people. The future of the Jewish state can never depend on the goodwill of even the greatest of men. Israel must always reserve the right to defend itself.

"Today, an unprecedented threat to humanity looms large. A radical Iranian regime armed with nuclear weapons could bring an end to the era of nuclear peace that the world has enjoyed for the last 65 years. Such a regime could provide nuclear weapons to terrorists. It might even be tempted to use them and our world would never be the same. Iran's brazen bid to develop nuclear weapons is certainly first and foremost a threat to my country, to Israel, but it's a threat to the entire region; it's a threat to the entire world. Israel thus expects the international community to act swiftly and to act decisively to thwart this danger. But we always reserve the right of self-defense.

"...I want to be clear. This doesn't mean that Israel is above criticism. Of course not. Israel, like any democracy, has its imperfections but we strive to correct them through open debate and through scrutiny. Israel has independent courts, the rule of law, a free press and a vigorous parliamentary debate. Believe me, it's very vigorous. Well you've just gone through a week of healthcare voting. In Israel, every week is healthcare week. It doesn't stop.

"I know that in this city, members of Congress refer to one another as my distinguished colleague from Wisconsin, the distinguished Senator from California. In Israel, members of Knesset don't speak of their distinguished colleagues from Be'er Sheva or Kiryat Shmona. Because in Israel, self-criticism is a way of life, and we also accept that criticism is part and parcel of the conduct of international affairs. But Israel should be judged by the same standards applied to all nations and to other democracies. Sometimes I think there's a triple standard: one standard for the dictatorships, a second standard for the democracies and a third standard is the standard for Israel. We should be judged by one standard and allegations made against the State of Israel must be grounded in facts. One allegation that is not grounded in fact is the attempt to describe the Jews as foreign colonialists in their own homeland. This is one of the great lies of modern times.

"In my office, I have a signet ring that was loaned to me by Israel's Department of Antiquities This ring was found next to the Western wall, but it dates back 2,800 years ago, two hundred years after King David declared Jerusalem as our people's capital. This ring is a seal of a Jewish official, and his name is inscribed on it in Hebrew. The name is: Netanyahu. Netanyahu Ben-Yoash. That's my last name. My first name, Benjamin, dates back 1,000 years earlier to Benjamin, the son of Jacob. One of Benjamin's brothers was named Shimon, which also happens to be the first name of my good friend, Shimon Peres, the President of Israel. Nearly 4,000 years ago, Benjamin, Shimon and their ten brothers roamed the hills of Judea.

"Ladies and Gentlemen. The connection between the Jewish people and the Land of Israel cannot be denied. The connection between the Jewish people and Jerusalem cannot be denied. The Jewish people were building Jerusalem 3,000 years ago and the Jewish people are building Jerusalem today. Jerusalem is not a settlement. It's our capital...

"Our soldiers and your soldiers fight against fanatic enemies that loathe our common values. In the eyes of these fanatics, we are you and you are us. To them, the only difference is that you are big and we are small. You see, you are the "great satan" and we are the "small satan." There's an important point here. This fanaticism's hatred of Western civilization predates the establishment of modern Israel by a thousand years. Militant Islam does not hate the West because of Israel. It hates Israel because of the West—because it sees Israel as an outpost of freedom and democracy that prevents them from overrunning the Middle East. That is why when Israel stands against its enemies—it stands against America's enemies."

You may read this speech in its entirety by clicking on the source link provided.

Thursday, February 4, 2010







This is the LOVE month.  I was born on Valentines Day, so it has always had special meaning.    As a little girl the thrill of cutting out paper hearts and attaching lace dollies to put in the mail made me wait with anticipation for a response.  Isn’t that like us. We are always waiting for someone to respond.  That somehow answers our heart that says "love me", "notice me", "look at me" and "understand my unmet need."

 Many boyfriends and broken hearts later,  Valentines Day took on new meaning.  It becomes a lonely day with out a special guy to say "Be MINE".  Marriage and valentines came, and  I began the struggle over "be mine".    There were years I was ready to say "be yours". Remember I am in the business of trading spaces and furniture, my heart had to be tenderized to see "me". Amazing how we always think it is "him or them".   

 How is a woman to forgive her husband when he jam's birthday into Valentines Day in one card?  I have tried over 25 years to express that these are 2 separate occasions.  I have decided now that we do not celebrate birthdays anymore we will just celebrate LIFE!

Like working out struggles we have with a friend, particularly our spouse, when we want to say this will not work.  I am not going to bend on this issue and  we want to pack up and leave, we learn to rearrange our thinking to engage in their thoughts and the things that make their space more comfortable.  Sometime we have to say “I am sorry for the way I held this against you.  I will make it work".   Letting go and letting G-D has always helped.

Just read an article today.   So true for the love month.  Read it at bottom.  Great wisdom. When we can communicate our feelings and pray about the outcome, we discover the possibilities that our life has.  We have each other.  It is just like the rooms of furniture and all the changes to “our plans” that take place.  When we believe in love and the commitment we have vowed, the moving of furniture from the past isn’t so hard.   Our unmet expectations change but our commitment to each other changes not.  Our love is the “glue stick” that holds us together.   

This Valentines  do not let your heart be broken .  Look at ways to redesign your space.  I am putting my expectations in things that are lasting. I am not hoping in  romantic surprises. I will admit though that I love them when they come and they show up just in time.

I now have learned to place my hope in things that are lasting and not let the build up of unmet expectations disappoint me.   The LOVE I have found never leaves me feeling shortchanged.

This year I am traveling to Israel for a month to fulfill a dream with purpose.  I am setting my heart to be a blessing to women who have lost hope thru tragedy and loss.  I have  a husband who loves me even though he sometimes does not give me the unspoken dreams of my heart.  He is my VALENTINE.



Scientific Study Finds Prayer Sparks Forgiveness
News Release (February 4, 2010)

"The scientists defined forgiveness as the diminishing of the initial negative feelings that arise when you've been wronged. Their results showed that those who had prayed for their partner harbored fewer vengeful thoughts and emotions: They were more ready to forgive and move on."

The following is a news release from American Psychological Science News(APS):

We have all been guilty of a transgression at one time or another. That's because we're not perfect. We all commit hurtful acts, violate trust, and hope for forgiveness.

PrayerThat's simply a fact, and here's another one: Nine out of 10 Americans say that they pray—at least on occasion. Florida State University psychologist Nathaniel Lambert put these two facts together and came up with an idea: Why not take all that prayer and direct it at the people who have wronged us? Is it possible that directed prayer might spark forgiveness in those doing the praying—and in the process preserve relationships?(Photo by: Adrian van Leen)

Lambert and his colleagues decided to test this scientifically in two experiments appearing in Psychological Science, a journal of the Association for Psychological Science. In the first, they had a group of men and women pray one single prayer for their romantic partner's well being. Others—the experimental controls—they simply described their partner, speaking into a tape recorder.

Then they measured forgiveness. The scientists defined forgiveness as the diminishing of the initial negative feelings that arise when you've been wronged. Their results showed that those who had prayed for their partner harbored fewer vengeful thoughts and emotions: They were more ready to forgive and move on.

If one single prayer can cause such a striking difference in feelings, then what could prayer over a period of time do for a relationship? In a second study, the researchers had a group of men and women pray for a close friend every day for four weeks. Others simply reflected on the relationship, thinking positive thoughts but not praying for their friend's well-being. They also added another dimension. They used a scale to measure selfless concern for others—not any particular person but other people generally. They speculated that prayer would increase selfless concern, which in turn would boost forgiveness.

And that's just what they found. But why? How does this common spiritual practice exert its healing effects? The psychological scientists have an idea: Most of the time, couples profess and believe in shared goals, but when they hit a rough patch, they often switch to adversarial goals like retribution and resentment. These adversarial goals shift cognitive focus to the self, and it can be tough to shake that self-focus. Prayer appears to shift attention from the self back to others, which allows the resentments to fade.

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Live And Become



I went to a touching movie last night “LIVE AND BECOME”.  This was a story of a nine-yr-old Ethiopian boy escaping to Israel. It is the story of how he survived leaving his mother behind and adapting to the Jewish culture as an adopted imagrant.  His conflict surfaced  for his convictions and pain of loss.  This really instilled in me a desire to look at matters of the heart.  What are my interpretations of my faith?  Who is my G-d?  How can I make my relationships connect with matters of the soul?

This made me realize the struggle we all are going thru to survive.  What will a mother do to save her child?  In this movie she gave him away so that he could LIVE.  He BECAME against all odds a surgeon and eventually went back and saw his birth mother as a field doctor.

 The relationship he had being raised Jewish and not understanding who he was. This became a constant inner conflict.  Who am I?  Why am a different than everyone who is "white"?  He still had human emotions.  He wanted to LOVE .  He was unsure how to LIVE.  He released  his pain by praying every night, by looking at the moon and somehow connecting with the soul of his distant mother.  Tragedy produces all types of defense mechanisms for survival.

We have to stay connected with the warm felt memories from lost love.  We are all looking for a semblance of love.  We all have a desire to know G-d.  We look to Him in our greatest need.

He expressed his pain so beautifully by saying it was as though he had been taken away and lost or stolen and dropped into a large thorn bush.  The stickers could not be removed the harder he tried the worse it got.  The pain was particularly cruel underneath his fingernails.  He could not remove the “STICKERS”.  Is not this the way broken dreams of the heart from lost love and earthly relationships affect us?.  We cannot see the “stickers” that are underneath our skin.  The Hurt is unbearable.

Pain only goes away when we can release and love again.  He had a new baby to encourage and show love.  His heart must be stretched to reach beyond its limits. The family he was forming needed emotional stability.  The future of his family depended on his emotional strength, not merely his surgical skills.

His history remembers pain, the isolation from his mother in Ethiopia, without food and water, seeing death at every turn.  He witnessed  his own siblings dying before his eyes and somehow feeling responsible for their death.

He Lived to become a lover.  He is a champion of triumphing over adversity and conquering pain thru continuing to live and LOVE again.

 As we are remembering the history of the Holocaust today on January 27 it is a good time to look at love and hold dearly those things that are close.   We learn how people  survive tragedy and those who helped become heroes.   

Conflict, like in the movie, produces new bonds where love can become evident.


The pastor at Le Chambon, André Trocmé(pictured left with his family) challenged his small flock with this very issue of who was their neighbour.

We must look for stories that portray how people care and love to rescue the perishing.  We can look for opportunities to help heal “hurts” when we read stories that inspire us to greatness.  This is one such story written below about a town in France.  I particularly loved it because my grandmother came from Marseilles France.  We  connect our heart to others in the hope that we will respond with such great LOVE.




On Holocaust Day: Remembering a French Village "Where the Most Remarkable Expressions of Love" Were Sacrificed in WWII
Teresa Neumann (January 27, 2010)

As Holocaust Day, January 27, is noted, an historian says: "A small community of Protestant Christians, descendants of Huguenots, were faced with a choice that would challenge the very essence of their faith. Would they live what they preached or would they put their own safety first?"

Le Chambon(France)—Somehow, stories of faith and heroism resonating from WWII continue to inspire us. Perhaps it is because we are still connected to the war by parents and grandparents who fought in it. Perhaps it is because in our times of tribulations there are more lessons to be learned from those who encountered similar trials before us. 

Case in point: Le Chambon sur Lignon, a small village in south central France set on a plateau high in the mountains. It is where, according to reporter Russel Bowles, one of the most remarkable expressions of love of the whole war occurred when the Christian inhabitants defied the Nazi occupation and provided a safe haven for thousands of Jewish people—many of them children. No Jew that requested shelter was turned away.

As reported in Inspire Magazine, it was the pastor at Le Chambon, André Trocmé, who challenged his small flock with the question of who their neighbors were in the Biblical context. Soon, the small flock—risking their lives to do so—began taking in Jews.

According to the report, eventually the pastor and his assistant Edouard Théis were arrested. "However, amazingly, they were released before they were due to be deported to the east. The Gestapo also arrested the Pastor's cousin, Daniel Trocmé, and he died in Majdanek extermination camp."

"Bad as these events were," writes Bowles, "it seemed that the Almighty had His hand of protection on the village, for in all about 5,000 Jews were sheltered when the Nazis were leaving no stone unturned elsewhere in their pursuit."

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

What is your House Built on ?



     This story from NBC news(see article below) really hit home. My occupation as an Interior Designer affects the way people live and how their homes reflect their family “likes and dislikes”. 
      It is so much more than taste. It is about quality of life. What picture do we portray?
We work so hard to get our rooms looking “just right” and a child has a friend over and everything is askew! Family ties and relationships we share with each other are so much more lasting than the “perfect room”.  Do we really care about the people who sit in the linen chairs putting the puzzle together?
     It is so true what it says in the Psalms about how we build a home. It refers to the fact that “unless the LORD build the house we labor in vain”. The “things “ we acquire to take up “space” in the rooms we live in are not nearly as important as the people we TREASURE who occupy and congregate in the ROOMS.
     This dad in the story built family time that will last when all the ROOMS TUMBLE.
Underneath the rubble he had built a lasting foundation with his kids that will last far longer than the “latest home DECORE”.
      May we all take a closer look as situations crumble and fabrics “wear out” and get up close to the “ones we love”. If we were inside your FAMILY ROOM what would we VIEW?



Buried in Haiti rubble, U.S. dad wrote goodbyes
But with iPhone info, he treated his injuries and was rescued after 65 hours



The words on the pages of the plain black notebook are written in a semi-scrawl, punctuated by smears of blood — stark evidence of the desperation in which they were written.

Sitting with his wife, Christina, in Miami’s Jackson Memorial Hospital, Dan Woolley showed the notebook to TODAY’s Meredith Vieira via satellite hookup Tuesday. Trapped for 65 hours under tons of wreckage in the lobby of his hotel by Haiti’s Jan. 12 earthquake and knowing he could die, Woolley had written notes to his two young boys and his wife.

“I always wanted to survive, but I knew that was something that I couldn’t control. So I decided if I had to go, I wanted to leave some last notes for them,” Woolley said. Opening the book and fighting his emotions, he read an entry he addressed to his sons, Josh, 6, and Nathan, 3:

“I was in a big accident. Don’t be upset at God. He always provides for his children, even in hard times. I’m still praying that God will get me out, but He may not. But He will always take care of you.”

‘Boy, I cried’
Woolley had taken refuge in an elevator shaft, where he used an iPhone first-aid app to treat a compound fracture of his leg and a cut on his head. He had already used his digital SLR camera’s focusing light to illuminate his surroundings, and taken pictures of the wreckage to help find a safe place to wait to be rescued — or to die.

Writing the notes to his wife and children wasn’t easy, the deeply religious man said.

“Boy, I cried,” he admitted. “Obviously, no one wants to come to that point. I also didn’t want to just get found after having some time — God gave me some time — to think and to pray and to come to grips with the reality. I wanted to use that time to do everything I could for my family. If that could be surviving, get out, then I would. If it could be just to leave some notes that would help them in life, I would do that.”

Woolley had been working for Compassion International, a mission organization, making a film about the impact of poverty on the people of Haiti. He and a colleague, David Hames, had just returned to the Hotel Montana in Port-au-Prince from a day of filming when the earthquake struck.......
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Thursday, January 14, 2010

Ready, Set, Go!


 


This has been an interesting week. I have learned a lot about interpersonal relationships.

I manage a crew of around 5 on a given day for a design installation.  The challenge comes when one of the people does not carry their weight.   My husband gave me a wonderful sense of encouragement on Monday morning as he read from the Message Bible “Don’t fret or worry.  Instead of worrying, pray.”  It went on to say “let G-d know all your concerns.  Before you know it, it is a sense of wholeness, everything coming together for good,  will come and settle you down.”

  This was going to be a great Monday, as  a builder called me to have us “stage” 2 of his homes, one he took in on a trade and another of his $5million custom homes he had built, to help clear out his present inventory.  This seemed to be a “match made in heaven” I am trying to “let go” of  furniture from “previous relationships” -  a furniture affair!

      This “match” had a few added pieces to the puzzle.  Some of the furniture was already happily “arranged” in another home.  How would it be  “broken up” and split between 2 households?  Would it work and have the right sense of arrival? Rooms, like people, talk and make a statement. The timing of the day was essential.  We had 3 houses to do, one to undo , a warehouse pick up, and 2 new houses to stage.

  I am so glad I am only moving furniture and not people with emotions and children with broken hearts form one parent and home to the next.   My frustrations come from unheaded worry about how “things will work out” and nothing will be broken, missing, or not fit. Will my crew be  responsive to the day?

Are they READY to GO?

    I love and hate cell phone communication.  I love it when I get the call from my married son in San Franscico saying “I made the Presidents Club”.  I hate it when I get the call from the driver and he is LATE.  I am ready to go.  How many times have we made people wait?  I say no problem. I know the traffic is bad on Monday morning, so will you be there in 20 minutes?  “Sure”. I settle into a hassle free day knowing I can go to the warehouse and sort thru the necessary components for the “rooms”. 

      The next call: “I am here but I am LOST”.  This is over an HOUR LATE.  I say “did you get a map from the guard at the gate?”  “No”. he says. I say “where is the map with the lot numbers I gave you?”  At this point everything my husband has said to me has gone out the window. Worry changed to ANXIETY.  Now all I need is another “call” saying they have no room in the truck for all the furnishings.   Sure enough, the CALL came “we don’t think it will all fit”.  I was near breakdown but I knew that I had to reach into that place hidden inside and pull up those  BURRIED TREASURES… PEACE  JOY & FAITH.

     I had done these moves many times and they always worked out.  The furniture like relationships change and move but the lasting ones work and stay with you . 

    What else could go wrong with this wonderful blue- sky- filled Monday?  We were already LATE and LOST.   What next??

       I get the CALL they were leaving the gated golf community and I could meet them at the next house, the NEW HOUSE.  I must start being excited to see where all  the pieces from the “past relationships” would fit.  It is just like meeting people for the first time. You are not sure how they will like you and the other way around.  There is excitement mixed with apprension.  I had everything I needed for the first trip so I better go and MEET AND GREET my CREW.  The next truck could get anything I forgot. My nerves were calm, my heart was steady, SET to GO. 

        By this time I had prepared to take the crew cookies and chocolate for the explosive phone conversation…after I lost it, like when your husband brings you flowers when he comes home LATE!   I was really “settling into the words of Paul read from my husband to START my day,  I  like NIKE,  JUST WANTED TO DO IT!!

          I turned on the key to my car - not a sound,  not even an engine grind.  Oh my, the BATTERY is DEAD.  I must REJOICE IN ALL THINGS, but this was getting ridiculous!!  I truly had seen the CALM before the storm.  My warehouse is next to several people who could help me “jump” the car.    I needed a JUMP START TODAY!!

   I finally arrived at another beautiful European Villa, LATE but not LOST.   I  realized this day would turnaround.   I  turned it over to prayer.  IT  is like LOVE and MARRIAGE. They do stay together when we work on keeping our BATTERY CHARGED.

     I will write next week on how the houses turned out and perhaps include some pictures.  One thing for sure, the G-d that loves me watches over me.  He is NEVER LATE & LOST and always EVER READY TO HELP!!     

Monday, January 4, 2010

Box Office Hit



  Well. I will tell you something about a great night out.  Have you ever gone to something based solely on a recommendation from someone else.  Or better yet a movie review that made you believe it would be better than the “Titanic”, after all it was the same director & producers.  $200 million in one week - surely this would be a great pick for a Saturday night flick.

  Since we live rather close to the theater  I thought a brisk walk would be fun to start our “date”.  This would give us time  to talk about what we were going to see.   Sometimes this is our only time to play catch up &  find each other.  Emotions tug and our hearts break when we don’t find each other.   Walking clears the air and opens communication.  Blue skies clear our cloudy days!

     There was a shift  in the barometric atmosphere as plans changed.  Alone I ran across the golf course to the mall where the theater is located.  I averted snow showers and ”freezing” heart conditions with warm thoughts of popcorn.  So much for a nice walk to start our date! 

      He hurried ahead to save 2 seats in the middle.  He was fearful they would “sell out” early, since this was such a box office hit.  I acquiesced and bought the bait.  It happened the other day when I let him take me out to dinner because of a coupon he had.  I should have remembered he never told me the menu.  I trusted his taste.  I walked into the movie to “will call” picked up my ticket not even sure of the name of the movie.  Was it Atomizer, or Aviation, oh, I know, Avant Guard.  He hands me the ticket it reads AVATAR.   I thought it would be a romantic love story that would make me tear up over the thoughts of seeing an actor like De Caprio.  This would be a great escape. 

   As I joined him center seat, like he said, I braced myself for romance and laughter, perhaps a step back in time.  I think that is why we are always decorating homes after a place we have so often never been.  We somehow get to dream we are in Provence or Tuscany instead of where we are.

      As the movie opened  I realized we were in some scientific lab with far out ideas about changing brains and places.  We were being thrust into the Future.  I wanted to be some place other than in the land of Pandora . Avatar got my attention all right. I never liked Jurassic Park - I shut my eyes the whole time!  Sci-fi I detest, give me a doctor like Dr. Zivago.  I am not drawn to GI Joe in some  techni-colored Vortex.   I know there will be after market dolls that my grandson will hug.  After all his mom had an ET doll.   Another movie not high on my favorite list.  These movies confuse spiritual issues making the reality of the ONE TRUE G-D a  myth.   See the movie review "Plugged In"  http://www.pluggedin.com/movies/intheaters/avatar.aspx and you can further decide if this is great food for a child’s soul. We all want to cuddle and embrace something thinking this will FIX our pain.

      People are looking for a justification for the messes we  and our world are in.  We want something to hold and value. We want the gods to come down and fix things!

 I looked up the meaning of the word Avatar in the Webster’s Dictionary to discover why I felt uncomfortable with the content.  It stated this fact of incarnation by the god’s.   The central theme of this movie was based on a Hindu concept where the god’s come down in bodily form to the earth.  The worship of the EARTH in the movie was mesmerizing.  A true departure from  worship of the LIVING G-D.

    We are always looking for an imaginary land to move to, a place where everything will be better.  I have embraced the one true G-d concept central in the Bible.  When you study the Pentateuch a warning is pronounced to have NO OTHER gods besides ADONAI.  As a child I discovered this and sought to know HIM,   He grew real BIG inside of me.  My world changes because He changes me. 

     Life teaches us lessons. The book of Proverbs talks about man planning his way but the LORD directs his steps.  We have wonderful building blocks if we will apply them in every area of our family life.  Our communication strengthens as we grow in HIS LOVE language.  

     So am I a romantic by not wanting to save the “trees”?  I want to save lives that are slipping and connect them to purposeful living and meaningful relationships.  I want to hold on to life and enjoy the pleasures that a precious baby bring. I want children to dream big because G-d is dreaming big in them.

    Live dreams thru loving life. Allow the G-d that holds the universe in place to complete His plans and purposes in you.

    Francis Bacon said, “A wise man will make more opportunities than he finds.” 

    I am yet to uncover all the mysteries in this world.  Just like in the movie as they were discovering how to see their world thru the forest’s eyes, I too am so sensitive to my CREATOR.  I am beginning to have HIS EYES AND SEE AND FEEL LIKE HIM.   Am I really from another planet?